Couples should solve their money problems with communication. Take the time to talk about your money problems and find solutions. They should take the necessary time to make a budget and decision who gets to pay what bill. House, utility, grocery, car or cars, etc. Married couples should save money especially if both couples are working. If one person is working and the other spouse is sick or very ill then the spouse and the family members should help with their expenses. I believe their should be both married couples working or if one or both couples start a home business which is very profitable.